Wednesday, April 17, 2013

9 months old

These little sweet babies are 9 months old!
 (Again, actually 9 1/2. I do take the pictures within a day or two of their actual month birthdays, but I'm just really behind on posting them! I feel like that's how much life is a lot of the time--like I'm running about 2 weeks behind. but anyway, I digress....)

We are enjoying them so much. I know I say it every month and you're probably tired of hearing me say how cute they are and how much we love them. But it's true. Yes, having twins is a LOT of work. It's exhausting, especially now that they're getting bigger and heavier. It's like a workout just to get people in and out of the car, the bathtub, and the high chairs. It's draining when they're both whiny and clingy and needy at the same time. But it is also just a continual blessing and joy to have them in our family.

I think back to this time last year. Spring is my favorite time of the year. Last spring was difficult for me to enjoy. I was starting to slow down considerably. I was huge and uncomfortable and tired. And to be honest, I was scared. I did not know how we would manage having twins. We felt overwhelmed at times with the 3 kids we already had. I just couldn't imagine what life would be like with two babies. 

And now here we are, with 9 month old babies! Every day around here is a gift and filled with God's grace. 2 Corinthians 12:9 tells us "But He said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me."

God tells us that His grace is sufficient for us, not overwhelming, but sufficient. And that's how I feel most days. He gives me enough grace to get through that day, that hour, that bedtime, that meal. And in my weakness (which is a lot), I am filled with his power. Having children, especially a lot of small ones at the same time, has a way of teaching me this lesson.



Alright, on to these cutie pies. They're both growing and developing so well. At their 9 month check up, Elizabeth weighed 17 lbs 11 oz (28%) and was 28 inches long (65%). James weighed 16 lbs 13 oz (3.5%) and was 27.5 inches long (23%). We've got to get little James to gain some more weight, but I truly think he's just burning off all the calories he eats. He is such a busy body!!

Elizabeth is continuing her physical therapy and doing well. She is so close to consistently rolling over. She'll occasionally do it, but still struggles to reach her arm across and get all the way there. She will push herself up on her hands and knees and rock back and forth. Just last week she started going from being on her hands and knees to sitting up on her knees. She also seems a little more motivated and interested in trying to reach out for toys and wanting to move, so that's progress for sure.

James is crawling and pulling up. He even stood up for a minute yesterday without holding on to anything. He gets mad now if I put him in the jumper or exersaucer because he does not want to be contained. He would rather crawl and get into the dog's water bowl or his big brother's toys. We constantly have to watch him near stairs (he has already tumbled down a couple of them) and he loves to crawl to the bathroom and push the shampoo bottles in. He's constantly looking for an adventure!

They both are getting teeth. Elizabeth now has two on bottom; James has 3 bottom and 2 top. it's so cute to see their little smiles with those teeth showing!

They sleep well at night, generally from around 7:30pm to 7:30am. They still take two naps a day. I put them down from 10-11:30am and 2-4pm. Elizabeth usually sleeps that entire time. James sleeps for about 45 mins in the morning and maybe an hour in the afternoon. But I just leave him in there to play for the rest of nap time. If I try to sneak him out of there, it wakes her up. He does protest and fuss at every single nap and bedtime! He can be quite vocal. She would rather just snuggle up and suck her fingers. So Sweet!

We're still doing lots of baby food, but I'm trying to give them more real foods to try--small pieces of fruit and crackers/bread. Elizabeth is more adventurous to try them than James is. He still doesn't even really like cheerios or puffs. But hopefully he'll catch on soon and we can stop buying so much baby food! They take bottles 4 times a day, but have been decreasing the amount they drink at each feeding to about 6 oz (instead of 8oz) now that they're eating more food.




By the way, Anna loves for Elizabeth to wear this shirt with the 3 ballerinas on it. She says it's Catherine, Anna, and Elizabeth. So even though it has snowflakes on it, Elizabeth has worn it quite a bit lately :)

We're heading into 10 months quickly.....which means that first birthday is just right around the corner!!

Thursday, April 11, 2013

New highchairs

Having two of every piece of baby equipment can take up a lot of space.

We had two highchairs--the one we used with our other kids and one a friend loaned us. They were great except that they took up so much space in our kitchen. And the trays were constantly getting knocked off the table or tripped over on the floor.

We were at a friend's house a while back and they had a great, simple highchair. Jay was very interested! Ikea to the rescue-- $25 each and transport from a great friend in Charlotte and we are loving the new, simple, easy to clean, smaller high chairs. I would recommend it even if you only have one baby!





Monday, April 8, 2013

Disclaimer: a Slice of Life

Somehow we have managed to have five children dressed in coordinating, cute clothes the past two Sundays in a row. And made it to church early (8:30am) that's pretty much a miracle that required hours of preparation.

But please don't look at them or me or jay and think "wow, they've got this all together." We don't. We struggle with lots of parenting issues and marriage decisions and the monotony of laundry, dishes, and shoes piled by the door. We crave sleep and vacation and quiet and naps. We lose our patience with kids, each other, and ourselves. We desperately need Jesus to do this.

I usually just post all of the great things on the blog about our family life. Cute pictures, fun events, funny stories, etc. please don't read those and think that it's a full picture of our life. It's just the slice you get to view. There's plenty more and I struggle with the balance of how much is appropriate to share publicly --it's not really appropriate to put all of our private lives out there. But by only posting the good and cute things, I don't want anyone else to think that's all there is to our life.

So just remember that this is just a slice of our life. You're welcome to come on over if you want the whole pie.

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Anna's birthday celebration

 In the midst of the Easter celebration this past weekend, we also had a quick birthday party for Anna. The sweet girl has never really had much of a birthday party. I guess that's what happens when you're the 3rd child. This one was simple too. We invited her two favorite friends from church to a little party at a local cupcake shop (gotta love Living Social deals). They ate pizza and decorated cupcakes and ate ice cream too. Not a healthy celebration :) But the kids loved decorating the cupcakes and had fun. It was an easy and fun way to celebrate our special little Anna.

Anna got her own apron with her name and a cupcake monogrammed on it!

The kids enjoyed pizza


Blowing out candles is always fun

                                                   Look at Anna's cupcake decorations


                                                    Friends enjoyed cupcakes too!

                     
                                              Will was really concentrating on his icing

                                             Catherine is a pretty good cupcake artist

 
                                   Anna ate a lot of cupcakes and icing. But hey, it's her party!



When you run out of cupcakes, just decorate the table with icing and lick it straight off the table!

  Anna was very excited to get a couple of fun gifts from friends. And her friends were very excited to give them to her! Her friend really wanted to get her a bike with purple hearts on it, but she settled on this princess dress-up gift instead :)

 James and Elizabeth enjoyed the party too. I'm pretty sure Mimi and PopPop sneaked them some cupcakes and ice cream!


We love you, 3 year old Anna! We're excited about another fun year with you!

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Easter Celebration

As promised, here are cute pics of the kids and some of our Easter celebration--dyeing Easter eggs, making Resurrection cookies with Mimi, and all dressed up for Easter morning. 
















Sunday, March 31, 2013

Happy Easter

He is risen, he is risen indeed! Alleluia!

We have had a wonderful celebration of Easter this week. I feel like we all took time this year to slow down a little more and meditate on what Christ actually did for us on the cross and in his resurrection. The Son of God willingly died for us, took the punishment of our sins, conquered death, and rose victoriously. That's the best news I've ever heard!

I'll post the typical Easter post of egg dyeing and the kids in their cute coordinating outfits (wait til you see James in a tie!) but for today I wanted to share Will's drawings. The first is from the church service we attended on Friday at noon, remembering Christ's suffering and death. The second is from today, celebrating his resurrection and life. I love these five year old puctures and that he is understanding both parts of Easter. If you only have the cross, it's just sad and unfair that he died. If you only have the resurrection, you miss the pain and suffering of our savior for you. We have to have both to grasp what God has done.

I hope that you and your family had a wonderful Easter celebration as well.



Friday, March 29, 2013

Anna is 3!





This crazy, sweet, spunky, lively, silly, gorgeous little one turned 3 years old this week! Wow! I can't believe she's so big. She thinks she's a big girl too. She told me that now that she is 3, she's as big as me.  She is changing and learning so fast. It's really exciting to watch.



We always let the kids pick what they want for their birthday dinner and she picked hard boiled eggs and juice. I hope it's not reflective of my cooking that her favorite thing to eat is a hard boiled egg! We did convince her that we should have pancakes and fruit too, but she mostly ate hard boiled eggs. Strange, for sure.


She really enjoyed helping make her birthday cake, especially the pink icing and the sprinkles. 





She was very excited to open her presents. So much fun to watch her get really excited about something. Catherine and Will picked out a Minnie Mouse memory game for her and she has told them thank you multiple times for it. She received a few other games, puzzles, and books and has really enjoyed them. She also has a new Dora Hot Wheels, but so far she can only pedal backwards.





We love you, sweet Anna! You keep us laughing and every day with you is full of surprises. It's been that way since the day you were born. We should have known we were in for a crazy ride after your quick labor and delivery of all 9lbs 5oz of you! You have a lot of personality and spirit and we are so glad to be your parents. Happy 3rd birthday!