Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Catherine's Big Purchase

Earlier this year we started giving Catherine an allowance ($1.50/week) if she completed her chores with a cheerful attitude each week. We wanted to start teaching her to give her tithe to church (she puts in a quarter on Sunday), save some (a quarter in the piggy bank), and then she has $1 to spend. When she had saved about $5-$6 she wanted to go to Target to buy something for her baby doll. We went and saw all the baby things you can get for $5---an outfit, a bottle, a little bitty baby doll, etc.

But then she spotted this whole box of baby accessories---it includes a pack-n-play, highchair, bouncy seat, carseat, carrier, and changing pad. That was what she wanted for sure. Only problem: it costs $20. So I tried to explain that she didn't have that much money and she had to make a decision. She could either buy something small today with her $5 or she could save her money (a long time if you're only getting $1/week) and buy it later in the summer. Oh what a dilemma she had! We had to walk around Target and have counseling sessions in the aisles about this. That's a really hard decision for a 4 year old to make, but in the end she decided to not buy something that day and save her money to get what she wanted. So we snapped a picture of the toy box on my cell phone to keep as a reminder/motivator and we headed back home.

So, for the last 2 months, she has been saving her allowance and doing extra chores (helping me clean out closets, organize dressers, and do additional chores without me asking) so that she could earn enough money for her baby doll accessories. About once or twice a week she would look at the picture on my phone and talk about all the things she wanted to do with those toys and how much her baby dolls were going to love them. She is such a little mother to them!

Finally this past weekend, she had enough saved. I told her on Friday night that we could go on Saturday and she was ready to go by 7am. So here she is with her long awaited purchase!!
She had her money in a ziploc bag and gave it to the cashier. She only had 6 cents left over, which she generously gave to Will. She did ask if she really had to give him the money to pay for it. It's a little different than when she "pays" for things when we play pretend, so I assured her that yes, you have to give him the money or you can't have the toys.
This really was a great lesson for her. So often I cave and just get them (and myself) things. It was fun to see her make her decision and stick by it and work hard to meet her goal. Just the first of many times that will happen. And now, we have more baby paraphernalia all over the house. I really think we have more things for her baby dolls than we do for Anna, but that's okay. If you ask what she wants to be when she grows up, she says a mommy (except once when she said she wanted to be a teacher in the day and work at Chick-fil-a at night). I love this little girl so much. I can't believe how fast she's growing up.
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Anonymous said...

love it! we love little catherine too!